Dear GC Readers, My Boyfriend Says We Should Try the Other Hole & Because I Said No, He Has Not Touc

Dear GC Readers,

My sex life with my partner of 3 years has hit the rocks as I cannot give to his recent demands. For the past 4 months, we have slept by each other’s side in the same bed as enemies without even cuddling or holding each other.

Things were great and we did a lot together to spice our in bed time. He returned from a holiday in Ghana about 6 months ago and a request I thought he was joking about has become so important to him that, it seems he is not ready to even touch me until I say yes.

He asked me few days after he came from Ghana if I have ever tried it in my other hole and I said, oh no, that is disgusting and unnatural. He asked that we should one day try it which I thought he was joking.

From then, he started bothering me with this anytime we make love, saying, it won’t hurt and I will enjoy it even more than where we do it.

I do not want to do this as I find it unacceptable, unnatural and also I am really scared. I have heard a lot of nasty things about people who do it at the back hole.

Since I have not agreed to my boyfriend’s demand, he has become so cold towards me in bed and for more than 4 months now, he has not even held me intimately, let alone kiss me.

I love him and this is killing me but I cannot bring myself to giving him this. I am ready to do everything for him but I cannot see myself doing this. I am so confused as to what to do. Please advise me on what a sister should do at this stage.

Thank You.

From: A. Asiedu / NY-USA

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